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Dearest Rabbi, I am at the "end of my wits." My own mother's sister raped me when I was all of four years of age and again at fourteen years of age. How do I "even" deal with "this..?" "This" being incest and in my own family. I am struggling mightily day by day to "cope" with the devastation and the long term consequences (sequelae in psychological "jargon"). I am fifty-eight years of age and I have not to date had one single relationship romantic, dating, anything at all.

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Suppose you say or do something to another person that is not technically considered a sin according to Torah law. But the person to whom this was said or done feels offended and is angry. Is this something one must seek forgiveness from the other for, or else they will bear an unforgiven sin?

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I married a person who treated me like slave for almost 10 years .He was involved in many money laundering,and literally spoiled everything. Since we had married in church where God is the judge I told him that I divorce him since he was into many criminal cases..I felt like not only me but kids too were suffering because of his mistakes and blunder. Then after 10 years he got a brain stroke.i took care of him but he still treated me and kids badly,cursed us and used his right hand to hold our throat and twist hands. I did not get any place to put him since all centres were charging high .Finally I got one place where I was able to admit him. I remarried since it is not easy to manage 2 kids all alone and I used to feel that I cannot live alone. I and second spouse just made a vow in front of God prior to that we both said to God that only if it's your will it should take place otherwise NO. but there were no obstacles and all the disturbance in mind was freed up after our marriage. I even asked for sign before this event takes place and God showed that sign too. We both are faithful to each other and pray that God be the centre of our marriage. My 2 kids too accepted my second spouse which was surprising. I had told God if it's ur will they should agree. After permission from my kids only I remarried. They too desire a father since they really longed for someone to love them like a father. Legally doing divorce is not an easy task here since society speaks evil behind. But after we both got married, burden and stress that was holding my mind has left. I believe I need to be faithful to the second covenant made by me to the husband I married since the first husband himself made a ground for separation. As a child of God I don't want to hurt the one who loves me,care for me and respects me as his wife compared to the first husband who didn't

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Dear Rabbi, Hi, I have been studying Judaism for a while now. After much deliberation I really want to covert to Judaism, specifically Modern Orthodox Judaism. I have found a synagogue in my area but I am confused in whether I should approach a Rabbi there or a Beth Din in my area for a halacha conversion. Sorry if this is a silly question, I couldn't find a straight answer straight away and I wanted to ask a trusted and knowledgeable source. Thank you so much.

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Through a database, I’ve been matched to a stranger who needs a kidney. I would like to donate one of my kidneys and save a life. My wife is very upset that I am giving up so much for someone I have never met and will probably never meet and won’t have a kidney to donate if a family member needs one. I have tried to get everyone I can think of to talk to her, but she hasn’t changed her mind. She says she will divorce me if I do this. What is the right thing to do?