Marriage

I married a person who treated me like slave for almost 10 years .He was involved in many money laundering,and literally spoiled everything. Since we had married in church where God is the judge I told him that I divorce him since he was into many criminal cases..I felt like not only me but kids too were suffering because of his mistakes and blunder. Then after 10 years he got a brain stroke.i took care of him but he still treated me and kids badly,cursed us and used his right hand to hold our throat and twist hands. I did not get any place to put him since all centres were charging high .Finally I got one place where I was able to admit him. I remarried since it is not easy to manage 2 kids all alone and I used to feel that I cannot live alone. I and second spouse just made a vow in front of God prior to that we both said to God that only if it's your will it should take place otherwise NO. but there were no obstacles and all the disturbance in mind was freed up after our marriage. I even asked for sign before this event takes place and God showed that sign too. We both are faithful to each other and pray that God be the centre of our marriage. My 2 kids too accepted my second spouse which was surprising. I had told God if it's ur will they should agree. After permission from my kids only I remarried. They too desire a father since they really longed for someone to love them like a father. Legally doing divorce is not an easy task here since society speaks evil behind. But after we both got married, burden and stress that was holding my mind has left. I believe I need to be faithful to the second covenant made by me to the husband I married since the first husband himself made a ground for separation. As a child of God I don't want to hurt the one who loves me,care for me and respects me as his wife compared to the first husband who didn't

Through a database, I’ve been matched to a stranger who needs a kidney. I would like to donate one of my kidneys and save a life. My wife is very upset that I am giving up so much for someone I have never met and will probably never meet and won’t have a kidney to donate if a family member needs one. I have tried to get everyone I can think of to talk to her, but she hasn’t changed her mind. She says she will divorce me if I do this. What is the right thing to do?

If a man’s wife is unfaithful to him, she becomes forbidden to him and he is required to divorce her. Suppose he refuses to divorce her and he chooses to remain married to her, despite the infidelity. What consequences could he face for this according to biblical law? Is the surrounding community supposed to take action against him to compel him to divorce her?

My husband is a yeshivah man but is not careful about saying krias shema on time and it bothers me greatly. I know it s none of my business, I should focus on myself, and still I can t let go. Can you offer me perspective?

I am currently dating a Jewish man who comes from a conservative Jewish family. He wants us to move forward in our relationship but he is scared of losing his family for not accepting a non-jewish partner and potentially any future offspring. My question is: if we do choose to be together and we do happen to have children, will it be possible to have the kids convert to Judaism at birth? Will his religiously conservative family accept our children, even though i'm not Jewish? Thank you

Is a couple allowed to have relations during the day or should it only be done at night?

If during the present time, as Israel goes to war against the enemy, an Israeli soldier meets a woman in Gaza and finds her attractive, and convinces her to convert to Judaism and marry him, would he be required to follow all the steps described at the beginning of Ki Tetze for one who finds a beautiful woman among the captives?