Hi again, I'd tried to email back re the response that you sent me to your question but it got kicked back to me, saying the address is not monitored. Here's the content of the email I tried to send---if there's anyway you can further respond:, I realize that the issue of premarital sex and mikkveh are rather intense for an email, and I will consider calling Rav Cohen. To be honest, however, I'm not sure I'm comfortable doing so. The fact that this email made it possible for me to ask the question in the first place! . I know we're not supposed to be having premarital sex, but we are, so we'd prefer to be as halachic about the situation as possible. My boyfriend thinks it's pretty clear in the gemora I should be going to mikveh, etc, but I'd like to hear more. If there is anyway you could say more, I'd REALLY appreciate it. Apologies if I'm asking for too much. Miriam

If an unmarried Jewish couple is having relations, should they follow the laws of niddah and should the woman go to the mikveh? (I know you'll say an unmarried Jewish couple should not being having relations, but if they are going to do so, what should be done?)

If an unmarried Jewish couple is having relations, should they follow the laws of niddah and should the woman go to the mikveh? (I know you'll say an unmarried Jewish couple should not being having relations, but if they are going to do so, what should be done?)

May I order free tzedaka boxes from the JNF (Jewish National Fund) for use in collecting tzedaka for other organizations or is that considered improper business practices? (e.g. 'fooling' the JNF by giving them the impression that I will be collecting JNF money with their boxes they're giving out for free and instead using it for another organization) .