Before I start I would like to state that my husband and I are very much in love and have been living happily for the last 4 years. As Andrew wife, I love to fulfill everything he could every want, from cooking his favorite foods to things that just live deep in his heart and mind. I am writing for some advice in the second area. I will try to write as modestly as possible, I apologize if some of my question is not so appropriate. I know that everything that is forbidden in the bible has a way of being permissible. My husband has always wanted to fulfill his dreams with me in a loving and permissible manner and I love that and have had not issue with doing that for him. However, we have one that I do not know how or what to do. I have had the same desires, and as a younger unmarried girl only began to experiment, but then stopped to wait until after marriage. Andrew always dreamt of watching me and a second girl “in bed”. He has also dreamt of joining us. We have a very open relationship so, thank G-d, we have talked about this for the last wile and we feel that it is not permissible and therefore have not tried it. My only fear is that if I do not do it for him, in a way that would be somewhat OK, like he would only penitent me (which is all he wants) and release in me, he may feel a need and find two girls on his own. My job as his wife is to fulfill everything he wants in a “kosher” way and I want to, but don’t know if it is. I really have no problem with his desire, but I want to do it in a manner that is permissible. I apologize for the lack in modesty in the question, but I need some guidance. Thank you for your help and a quick response, Sara apeppera@yahoo.com

I am a student an am writing a paper for a Religions class. I have choosen Judaism as my topic although I am not Jewish. I find it to be very honest religion. If you could answer these questions for me, it will help me have accurate information for my essay. 1. Important Holidays, Why? 2. Important Traditions? 3. What are the challenges within this religion in the year of 2005? 4. What changes have you viewed in your followers? 5. How does your religion feel about other religons? 6. What roles do males and females play within this religion? 7. Does Judaism encourage converting? 8. What are Judaism traditions about dating and marriage? 9. Are there any rituals you can share with me? 10. Are there any medical issues within this religion? 11. Does your religion believe in incarnations? 12. Which is your synagogue affiliated with Jewish Humanism or Messianic Judaism?

Before I start I would like to state that my husband and I are very much in love and have been living happily for the last 4 years. As Andrew wife, I love to fulfill everything he could every want, from cooking his favorite foods to things that just live deep in his heart and mind. I am writing for some advice in the second area. I will try to write as modestly as possible, I apologize if some of my question is not so appropriate. I know that everything that is forbidden in the bible has a way of being permissible. My husband has always wanted to fulfill his dreams with me in a loving and permissible manner and I love that and have had not issue with doing that for him. However, we have one that I do not know how or what to do. I have had the same desires, and as a younger unmarried girl only began to experiment, but then stopped to wait until after marriage. Andrew always dreamt of watching me and a second girl “in bed”. He has also dreamt of joining us. We have a very open relationship so, thank G-d, we have talked about this for the last wile and we feel that it is not permissible and therefore have not tried it. My only fear is that if I do not do it for him, in a way that would be somewhat OK, like he would only penitent me (which is all he wants) and release in me, he may feel a need and find two girls on his own. My job as his wife is to fulfill everything he wants in a “kosher” way and I want to, but don’t know if it is. I really have no problem with his desire, but I want to do it in a manner that is permissible. I apologize for the lack in modesty in the question, but I need some guidance. Thank you for your help and a quick response, Sara apeppera@yahoo.com

Dear Rabbi Moshe Newman, I am very happy to know that you people like me. You Suggest Stone Edition Chumash and Gateway to Judaism before. But I am sorry to say that after checking the price list I felt ashemed. It is absolutely high for me. Moreover in my place we don't have International Credit Card. So If I can arrange that amount of money someday in future I will not able to buy them through net. So with my studies I have to ask frequently. Now this time I have a question I asked before but didn't got any acknowledgement and no answer. From old testament (Transleted) I came to know that after destroy the nation of Prophet LUTH (Pbh). He along with his two daughters went away to fur away. There after someday his daughters felt that Prophet LUTH becoming old and there is no human being around so how they will save the generation. So they make him drunk by Grape juice and had sex with him one by one and become pregnent. Their sons become the father of the nation later called ARMENIAN (or Ammenio) and Mouabio or Mouabian. But all of we know that Prophets are holy soul, how can they go for such activity like sex with daughter? Please make me clear. Thank you, SHAMIM