I have a private, confidential question I would like to ask--Not For Publishing. After the Sabbath, Hanukkah, etc., someone who is in a position to answer a private, confidential question may email me. The issue involves a rabbi. Thanks.

When showering, is a person allowed to listen to music?

My mother had a dream that her grandson, who is 4 months old, first word (or number) he said was 111. Is there a meaning to 111, what is it's Gemtria? Thank you,

When lighting the chanukiah, do you use the same shamash each of the 8 nights or do you let each night's shamash melt as well and use another the next night? Thanks, Alex