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hello i have a very serious problem. my husband and i started to become observant 5 yrs ago, however, during this past year my husband has become too extreme. i am a product of intermarriage and my siblings are intermarried and now he is telling me our daughter can not see them and they can not visit us. surprisingly this is not the serious problem, we were supposed to move to a more observant neighborhood this week, we have rented a house. he moved out without me and is telling me that if i want to move to house with him i must give up the Television. basically, give up the t.v. or we will divorce. i don't like the way he has gone about this and i don't want to give up my t.v. I only have basic channels and I don't watch anything inappropriate. my daughter watches sesame street and educational shows on PBS, and du du fisher video's. what can i do to talk some sense into him? I tried talking to his rabbi but it has made everything worse. his rabbi is hassid and intead of being neutral reinforced ny husbands behavior.

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I have a private, confidential question I would like to ask--Not For Publishing. After the Sabbath, Hanukkah, etc., someone who is in a position to answer a private, confidential question may email me. The issue involves a rabbi. Thanks.

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hello i have a very serious problem. my husband and i started to become observant 5 yrs ago, however, during this past year my husband has become too extreme. i am a product of intermarriage and my siblings are intermarried and now he is telling me our daughter can not see them and they can not visit us. surprisingly this is not the serious problem, we were supposed to move to a more observant neighborhood this week, we have rented a house. he moved out without me and is telling me that if i want to move to house with him i must give up the Television. basically, give up the t.v. or we will divorce. i don't like the way he has gone about this and i don't want to give up my t.v. I only have basic channels and I don't watch anything inappropriate. my daughter watches sesame street and educational shows on PBS, and du du fisher video's. what can i do to talk some sense into him? I tried talking to his rabbi but it has made everything worse. his rabbi is hassid and intead of being neutral reinforced ny husbands behavior.

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I have a private, confidential question I would like to ask--Not For Publishing. After the Sabbath, Hanukkah, etc., someone who is in a position to answer a private, confidential question may email me. The issue involves a rabbi. Thanks.

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When lighting the chanukiah, do you use the same shamash each of the 8 nights or do you let each night's shamash melt as well and use another the next night? Thanks, Alex