Customs and Times of Sefira
Question
I have a question about Pesach and Lag B'Omer and Shavuos. I have absolutely no idea how to properly observe it because everyone has their own customs and differing ideas. I would like to know exactly when the mourning period had started and when it ends (excluding the break of Lag B'Omer on May 16) What exactly is a non-married female prohibited from doing? May I shave my legs, get my hair dyed, cut my toenails, buy new clothes, go out with friends, enjoy myself, or greet someone with excitement? I don't know exactly what the prohibitions are and when I have to observe them and everyone is giving me so many different answers that I just want a definitive guideline as to how to guard my actions and behaviors during this time! Thank you very much!