Hi rabbi - I asked the question about lighting candles with a lighter. If I am sphardi and my wife is ashkenaz does she change how she lights Shabbat candles to the sphardi custom or continue to say the bracha after lighting like her mom does?

If one received a package in the mail that contained food during shabbat. May one open the package to consume the food on shabbat?

May one use a lighter to light shabbat candles instead of matches?