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Hello Rabbi, I promised Gd out loud i wouldn't say swear words anymore but because i am so used to using them i keep saying them unintentionally. I also promised Gd i wouldn't think about intimate matters anymore but again it keeps happening inadvertently. What should i do ? Im trying to control but its really hard. i really want to stop being a bad person. also im afraid because i swore Gd will punish me much harsher.   Thank You for reading my concern rabbi May Gd bless you

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Can I use electric Shabbat candles if I’m at a non Jewish camp that doesn’t allow fire? I’ll not turn them off until after Shabbat ends.

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Since the Torah prohibition of b’sachar b’chav is cooking meat and dairy, is it okay to have carpaccio (raw meat) and dairy? What about reduced waiting times?

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Shadchan (rabbitzen) asked me why do I want to get married. I told her that G-d commanded this in Torah to Adam. She asked me a very legitimate question: "Who heard that G-d commanded it to Adam or who witnessed it, if there was no people? Who can prove that G-d ever spoke with him about anything? How do we know that G-d ever spoke to Moses, besides 10 commandments that 3 million people heard it? I think this rabbitzen has a very legitimate questions. I don't know how it relates to shidduch, its more like philosophical venue disscussion, But apparently this is very important thing to find out for shidduch process. P.S. I don't think there any real answers on questions like that... Thank you. With respect. David