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Does facetime or Zoom work for pirsumei nisa? Specifically, if I get home late at night and my family is sleeping the halacha requires to wake someone up to have pirsumei nisa. Can I facetime a friend to watch me light?

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Good afternoon, I was hoping I might be able to ask you guys if there might be a general purpose book for Torah studies, that would be useful for gentile studies? Long story short, I'm trying to find my Faith, and as a person I feel like the only way to know where you're going is to know where you've been, and that means that the Torah is important context to be able to fully see the New Testament in the proper light. To me, anyway. I'd be appreciative of anything that might have translations, but I'm mostly hoping for something that has a good index of commentaries from noted scholars in English if possible. Thank you in advance, your time is appreciated.

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What are the Jewish laws about dating someone you just met and became friendly with versus using a shadchan to find a spouse? I am in college now. There is a Hillel on the campus, and I have dated a few Jewish girls I met in the Hillel. I want to get married someday. This is not just for fun. So far, I not clicked with any of them, and no one I know there seems like someone I want to marry, but I would not have known that unless I dated them. My parents think what I am doing is wrong. They think it is forbidden to date anyone you are not matched up with through a shadchan. They were matched up by a shadchan themselves and they believe it is the only permissible way to meet one’s spouse. The Hillel rabbi is not orthodox. I would like an answer from an orthodox rabbi.

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Dearest Rabbi, I am at the "end of my wits." My own mother's sister raped me when I was all of four years of age and again at fourteen years of age. How do I "even" deal with "this..?" "This" being incest and in my own family. I am struggling mightily day by day to "cope" with the devastation and the long term consequences (sequelae in psychological "jargon"). I am fifty-eight years of age and I have not to date had one single relationship romantic, dating, anything at all.